Many men have known the agony of liking a young lady only to fear these feelings will never be reciprocated. And while there is no way to 100 percent guarantee that a particular woman will fall for you there are tips that can make it more likely that the woman who is the subject of your attention will fall for you. These methods to attract the woman of your dreams are both ethical and productive.
Have your own life
The woman you desire will be more likely to want to be a part of your life if she views your life as interesting. No one wants to be bored or unproductive. Tip number one to attracting the woman you of your dreams is to spend some time becoming all you are meant to be in your life.
Have a hobby or passion
This furthers the idea in the first tip. You will be much more attractive to a woman if you have a hobby or passion they find interesting. The key is you must have a true passion for this hobby and not try to fake it. True passion is noticeable and your girl will see it if it is there.
Any woman will tell you that a man who smells good has instantly won a number of points with her. This does not mean cover your body in two full coats of Axe body spray. A good shower with soap and shampoo along with clean clothes and deodorant is enough for most women. A squirt or two of cologne may also help your cause but do not overdo it.
Request her assistance
This tip may seem a bit manipulative but it is definitely not negative or evil. The Benjamin Franklin effect is a term used in psychology that you are seeking to take advantage of here. The effect states that human beings develop a fondness for people they help. Ask the object of your affection to do small things for you like deliver a message to someone or pick up a pencil you ‘accidentally’ dropped. But be careful not to make her think you are using her.
Make her laugh
Humor is the way to a woman’s affection. It is not required that you become an elite level comedian but a well-delivered joke from time to time will greatly increase your chances with the girl you like.
Be a friend
Do not confuse being a friend to the woman who has captured your heart with being placed in the friend zone. However, men who have spent time in the friend zone in the past have gone on to have great relationships with their former ‘friends.’ Take the time to do things for the object of your affection that other men won’t do. Leave notes that are bound to put a smile on her face. Be willing to sympathize when she has problems and send good morning texts.
The bottom line
Do not be the guy that misses out on a chance to date the girl of his dreams because he thinks with a negative mind and will not do what it takes to gain a woman’s affection. The following actionable tips will make it much more likely the girl of your dreams will find you attractive.